Monday, April 18, 2005

Going Sideways

Spocko's Brain was in a bit of overload the last 5 days. Dealing with big life issues. I'm still trying to make sense of them all and move forward and not backwards. More on this later. But in the mean time read part of this this excellent review of Sideways by David Denby in the New Yorker.

Payne and Taylor have always made movies about the melancholy middling-to-lower range of achievement and ambition, the near-losers that Americans hate but that so many of us at our most demoralized become. Up until now, the dead-eyed blandness of Omaha, Payne’s home town, has dominated his work. He and Taylor have repeatedly satirized the emotional flatness and evasiveness of the place, while treating with tender respect their characters’ hesitant, inarticulate yearnings for something more. Together they have created a gallery of memorably mediocre people: the dumb, paint-sniffing but tenaciously enduring Ruth Stoops (Laura Dern) in “Citizen Ruth”; the vindictive schoolteacher (Matthew Broderick) in “Election”; the soured widower (Jack Nicholson) in “About Schmidt.” There is, I believe, a quiet but persistent spiritual ethos at the heart of their intention. The blinkered, semi-unconscious sinners stumble toward grace—a moment of clarity, of self-realization. Some of them may even get there.


I didn't think Sideways was Payne's best movie, but it had its moments. Part of the reason it resonated with many man was that it so often appears that only the stories of the highest or the lowest get told. Where is the meaning in the middle? In a world of winner take all and the rich get richer do our lives count?

I often wonder about the "aspirational" republicans. Does deluding themselves work better than seeing a hard reality and associating with a class that is getting shafted again and again in subtte or not so subtle ways?

3 Comments:

CmdrSue said...

"I often wonder about the "aspirational" republicans. Does deluding themselves work better than seeing a hard reality and associating with a class that is getting shafted again and again in subtle or not so subtle ways?"

First - if only they aspired to be TRUE republicans. Ya know, conservative and wise. But I assume you mean the people who hope that they can make money and become 'big guys' so that they can screw the little guys. They think they have aspirations. I think that they are spiritually and morally bankrupt. I can't tell you how many conversations I've had to leave because "good, moral Christians" got to talking about how they were lying to their insurance company, or on their taxes, etc. Guess what, morons? That is unfair to everyone and it's definitely not what Jesus would do.

I find it very revealing that something like 20% of Americans think that they are in the top 10% of income and/or wealth - so, yes, they are seriously deluding themselves. I think that to some extent all of us are filtering our reality to make it more pleasant to deal with - but why would you filter it so that you are so damn self-centered? That's the thing that gets me about these people (and I'm talking about specific ones I know and deal with personally, not the general 'they') - how can you make the world a better place (which you preach to me you want to do) by seeing everything in terms of how YOU can get ahead?

Sorry. Now my brain hurts. < / rant>

2:24 PM  
spocko said...

CmdSue: I hear you. A friend of mine was the one who gave Annie Lamott the quote, "You know you are creating God in your own image when He hates the same people you do."

And yes, I think it is right to make a distinction between true republicans and the people who want to make it big so they can screw the little guys. Even if they don't think they will be screwing the little guys.

Welcome to the death of "Christian" empathy. And by Christian I mean the ones you are referring too.

Sue, did you ever see the movie Jesus of Montreal? If you haven't check it out. It is a very interesting take on the "How would Jesus act if he was alive today."

Thanks for spotting by and posting! I appreciate it.
I hope your head feels better!

6:34 PM  
kelley b. said...

Hey spocko, remember, sideways in life just takes you on a tour of things you'd never get a chance to see otherwise.

Aspirational republicans are conditioned to think that being the alpha male (or female) is the bottom line in life.

Big mistake, that.

There is no "bottom line" in life.

Or at least, in the multiverse.

There's only doors to more experience, as long as you can experience.

7:09 AM  

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